Never Engage In Slander
He who conceals his hatred has lying lips, and whoever spreads slander is a fool. Proverbs 10:18
It’s rare to find a political candidate these days who runs a totally clean campaign. But slandering isn’t limited to politicians. Given the right set of circumstances, each one of us can be tempted to denigrate the other. Before you do, however, read these words carefully: ‘LORD, who may dwell in your sanctuary? Who may live on your holy hill? He … who speaks the truth from his heart and has no slander on his tongue, who does his neighbor no wrong and casts no slur on his fellow-man’ (Psalm 15:1-3). Can you recall the last time you spoke words that tore someone down? What was your motive? Why did you feel a need to diminish them in the eyes of other people? Were you speaking out of the pain of having been hurt by them? Did you envy their accomplishments? If so, have you not learned to let envy motivate you to achieve your own goals instead of making you defame another? Is it possible you grudgingly admire and desire something the other person has? The Bible says, ‘Promotion … come[s] from God’ (Psalm 75:6-7). This Scripture should cause you to become a team player, not a competitor. There’s no reason to snuff somebody else’s light out so that yours can shine. God has already declared that no one can thwart His purpose for your life: ‘The Lord [Almighty] has spoken – who can change his plans? When his hand moves, who can stop him?’ (Isaiah 14:27). And since God has already secured your destiny and promised to avenge all wrongs perpetrated against you, you never need to engage in slander.
Heavenly Father, forgive me for the times I have slandered someone. Help me be one that builds others up – and if not – then one who shuts up. In Jesus’ Name, Amen