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The Gift Of Real Friendship

And Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself. 1 Samuel 18:3

From day one, Jonathan and David were on a collision course - Jonathan as the rightful heir to the throne of his father Saul, and David who'd been called by God to succeed Saul. These two had everything to lose by becoming friends because ultimately only one of them could reign. So were they suspicious and jealous of one another? No, because neither was interested in promoting himself! In fact, 'Jonathan made a...vow to be David's friend...by giving him his robe, tunic, sword, bow, and belt.' He risked his life to help David, despite Saul's warnings that his throne would never be established as long as David was alive (See 1 Samuel 20:31). Likewise, David jeopardized his life fighting the Philistines to help Saul and Jonathan establish their kingdom. A true friend is 'there for you,' even when they'd rather be somewhere else. Oprah Winfrey says, 'Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who'll take the bus with you when the limo breaks down!' Real friendship is about being more concerned with the other person's wellbeing than about your own. The Bible says, 'Friends love through all kinds of weather...' (Proverbs 17:17). So, when was the last time you thanked God for the real friends in your life? What is it that separates them from the pack and makes them so special? Be sure to acknowledge and appreciate them at every opportunity. And if you need a friend, try being one!

Prayer
Heavenly Father, help me be the kind of friend to others that I want. In Jesus’ Name, Amen