Always Tell The Truth - August 25, 2011
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Always Tell The Truth!
Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body. Ephesians 4:25
Honesty isn't just the best policy, it's the only one! Paul says, '...when we lie to each other we are hurting ourselves.' When trust is broken it is hard to restore. Now, while telling the truth sounds simple, it takes commitment on three levels:
1) Verbally. Lying undermines confidence. For example, when somebody denies blowing the family budget or covers up a drinking problem, inevitably there is trouble. But when each partner knows in his or her heart that the other '...will hold to the truth in love...' (Ephesians 4:15) the relationship becomes stronger and more likely to weather the storm.
2) Behaviorally. The Bible says, 'Unless you are faithful in small matters, you won't be...in large ones. If you cheat even a little, you won't be honest with greater responsibilities' (Luke 16:10). You become known as a person of integrity by keeping your word. So, if you make a commitment to do something, do it, even if it costs you or you get a better offer.
3) In actuality. Why make such a big deal about telling the truth? Because every relationship in your life is based on one thing - trust! When you violate that, you a) end up losing your influence and respect with others b) constantly live with the fear of being found out, which makes you insecure c) have to worry about what you said, and to whom d) ironically get to where you can't believe others, for 'as you live your life, you judge your neighbor.' So, tell the truth!
Prayer
Heavenly Father, help me to always speak the truth in love, let my yes be yes and my no be no. In Jesus’ Name, Amen
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Probably hard to find a Biblical reference to support this note... but telling the truth is also easier than lying.
The truth is a straight story. You pretty much tell everyone the same thing... there are not 8-20 versions.
A lie is a web of twists and turns and versions that keeps getting more complicated and "knottier" and "morphing" into new narratives that are harder to maintain and remember.
When you tell the truth you don't have to expend nearly as much time and energy remembering who you said what to when and under what circumstances... and who else was around and who they might talk to and share with. You just need to show a little grace and discretion in how much you say and to whom you say it.
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