Tuesday, November 6, 2007
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HALLMARKS OF A GREAT DADChildren's children are the crown of old men; and the glory of children are their fathers. Proverbs 17:6
Boswell, the famous biographer, tells of a day when his Dad took him fishing. Later when he read what his father had written in his journal, he found only one sentence: 'Today went fishing with my son; a day wasted!' He was devastated! Solomon says, '...the glory of children is their father' (Proverbs 17:6).
Here are six hallmarks of a great dad:
- He protects: he guards his children physically when they're young, and emotionally as they mature. He teaches his sons to respect girls, and interviews the guys who date his daughter.
- He listens: unlike the kid who told his Mum, 'I'm gonna be just like Dad when I grow up. My eyebrows are already growing together, and when people talk to me I don't listen!' Listening builds a lifetime bridge to your child's heart.
- He's affectionate: nothing communicates security and worth to your kids like holding them. If you grew up without it, make sure they don't.
- He disciplines: He doesn't just discipline, he models self-discipline.
- He's fun: he's not so preoccupied that he's a drag to be around. Remember, 'A merry heart makes a cheerful countenance...' (Proverbs 15:13), so show your kids your lighter side!
- He 'walks the walk': Former atheist, Lee Strobel, says, 'When I became a Christian, my five-year old daughter said, 'Mummy, I want God to do for me what he's done for Daddy,' and she became a Christian.' When you walk the walk before your kids, it changes everything.
Prayer
Heavenly Father – you are our Father – help me model your compassion, your fairness, your character to others and especially my children. In your precious name, Amen
Heavenly Father – you are our Father – help me model your compassion, your fairness, your character to others and especially my children. In your precious name, Amen
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